In the name of Allah, compassionate & merciful بِسْمِ اللهِ الرَّحْمنِ الرَّحِيمِ
Peace be with you السلام عليكم
I know I have written a little about the abuse I endured and I have been reconsidering it. For example, I have forgiven my mom for what she did but I am still telling you all about her actions. Aren't I exposing her sins? My hubs thinks that if I have forgiven them then it probably is not fair for me to air it out. BUT I think that it happened to ME and it is a part of who I am so I feel that I am entitled to share it.
So forgive and forget? erase the posts about abuse?
or what if my mom becomes Muslim? wouldn't that wipe away the sins she committed before? so wouldn't it be best I hide her flaws? specially since she is no longer committing them?
or the child rapist? what if he became Muslim? What then? Since he hasn't changed though I still feel he needs to be pointed out for the safety of other children.